Below are the 6 most recent journal entries recorded in happytoseeyou's LiveJournal:

Sunday, January 15th, 2006
1:30 am	Fantasies Do you women fantasize about cocks? What's the ultimate hot cock look like? Tell me about its size, shape, go into detail about the attributes you really want. (38 Comments |Comment on this)
Tuesday, July 26th, 2005
1:20 am	Are women like guys, when it comes to raw desire? the responses have been great, really interesting and very helpful. most women don't really obssess about a guy's size. they do prefer a certain range....nothing too large since that can be painful but also nothing too small because then there is no sensation at all. most women spoke more about whether the guy knows how to use it, meaning whether he puts his attention on her feelings and needs and her sexual satisfaction. the majority of women care more about this than size. I'm still confused about whether women are really visual, like guys are. I can't tell from the responses whether women enjoy nudity or simply tolerate it. It appears that it does not turn them on like it would to a guy...i think they are much more interested in the story behind the nudity...or perhaps no nudity at all and just an erotic story, a harlequin romance with a little smut thrown in. do women get turned on by romance and an emotional connection with a guy or by raw desire (a hot nude male body, the promise of a night in the sack with a stud, by the thought of uncommitted, no strings attached sex)??? (96 Comments |Comment on this)
Tuesday, July 12th, 2005
2:49 am	Self worth, who determines it? Most of the women denounced penis size as an important issue...they said to believe it is important is to believe a bunch of lies we;ve been sold. In conclusion, I learned that the real issue is not penis size but self worth...and who determines one's own sense of self worth and self acceptance. We can say that we accept ourselves as we are but do we really? We are all different...we come in different shapes and sizes, whether we are male or female. It's not always easy like what we see, to like what we se in others.... Whether we admit it or not, we struggle, at times, with this issue.... far more often than we care to admit. I have learned we must confront the issue head on, not ignore it... who determines our self worth? Do we love ourselves as we are? what needs to change in order for us to ove ourselves in this moment? This is not an issue that only has to do with one's penis size...it has to do with how often do listen to the outside world, how often we are influenced by media, by those who want to sell us something... Do we value ourselves as we are or do we look to the outside world and pray and wait and hope that others will validate us if we meet their standards? Current Mood: ecstatic (46 Comments |Comment on this)
Monday, July 11th, 2005
2:48 am	inadaquacy is a reflection of? The issue of inadequacy was addressed...commercials, ads, porno films, web sites make men less than enough....this is the mechanism by which the companies sell their products...by creating a feeling of inadaquacy among the male population. Many responded with links to sites that offered scientific evidence not only regarding penis size but the uselessness of the pills and the pumps and the creams to enhance a man's penis size. Surgery, however, in rare cases was an effective solution for those men in true need...not the majority of men, even though a majority feel they want such an intervention...and this reflects the serious problem of the way media affects all of this. Once again, it was stated many times....this problem not only affects men. Women are perhaps more impacted by media's infleunce. Breast size, weight, other aspects of appearance were mentioned, ways to enhance and improve a woman's image so she will be liked by the opposite sex, so she will fit the "image" of what men want, usually displayed in ads, commercials and often on TV and films....commercials are notorious for selling images....cars are often sold in commercials because a "sexy" big busted "hot" woman stands next to it which makes the woman and the car desireable. Women offered their opinion on two nude photos I posted. the majority said I looked fine, good to them. A few said they prefer a larger size then mine, that my size was too small (I am 6 and 1/2 inches). Some said they liked my girth, which is on the thick side. Some said they prefer smaller penises because of the pain a larger penis casues them.... a few women said that a larger man causes pain to the cervix...not a desireable expereince at all. Current Mood: awake (36 Comments |Comment on this)
Sunday, July 10th, 2005
2:46 am	Learning a lot I learned that penis size is not an issue for most women. Most women are far more concerned with the relationship itself, with whether a man "knows how to use his penis." In other words, they felt that technique surpasses physical attributes in the long run as a factor of importance. Emotional connection, talking, being devoted, touching, caring, one's connection...aspects of the relationship itself were far more important to the women who reponded than penis size. They said penis size as an issue is overrated. Most of the women (and men) who responded denounced the media for making penis size an issue and the companies that promote the perfect image that bigger is better for men....who sell penis pumps and pills and enhancement devices and the promise that "you'll please her" if you are larger. It was noted this is a billion dollar industry and it has played havoc on many men's sense of self esteem and self worth. Of course, we are talking about penis size in this post but we could just as easily be talking about breast size or weight or many other factors of physical appearance (for both men and women). many who reponded sited statistics and studies..it was stated at least a few times that the national average for penis size is approximately 5.5 inches. Current Mood: cheerful (Comment on this)
Saturday, July 9th, 2005
10:04 pm	Chime in...what do you think? I really am enjoying the live journal experience. I didn't expect it would be so valuable when I logged on about a week ago. The response to my post has been overwhelming, so many nice people offering really thought provoking, informative responses. I am surprised by how much I am learning. I really didn't expect that the experience would be this beneficial. Since my post dealt with penis size and whether women really want their men to be a a certain size, perhaps large (7, 8, 9 plus inches), since size presumably would offer them more sexual pleasure, a bigger turn on It took some guts for me to put this post online, not only because the issue is a sensitive one but mainly because I included nudity in the post, parts of myself I'm not used to showing in public. Furthermore, I asked for feedback on the images. The reponses were amazing. Current Mood: contemplative (4 Comments |Comment on this)